Defining my path

I haven’t decided on any particular tradition as yet. I am interested in regaining the ancient pagan religion of my land (England).  At first I thought this would be Celtic paganism, though I have also discovered that those who travelled from the North (the Vikings) came into Scotland and worked their way south into Northumbria were of Norse Paganism.  Then you have the Romans who came along with their gods and traditions, and also there is some interest in the Greek Gods and Goddesses. 

·         Celtic Paganism

·         Norse (aka Heathenism, Asatru)

·         Roman

·         Greek

There are elements of all these traditions that interest me, in some it is their deities, their beliefs, their festivals, and their practices at home, etc.  There are also some other traditions that intrigue me, and I would like to learn more about them to incorporate into my path, namely the following:

·         Native American

·         Vodoun / Hoodoo / Voodoo

·         Hindu

·         Amish

I would like to learn more about each of these traditions deities, beliefs, festivals and practices, and adopt any I like into my own spiritual path.  I understand that Hindu’s , and some other spiritual paths, are keen to adopt other faiths practices and beliefs, incorporating them into their own.  In a sense, I have this vast background of various paths and traditions that have been in my country, and through this modern age of internet and travel, I have learnt about other spiritual traditions from across the globe.  And these too can be incorporated into my spiritual path. 

I guess you’d call my path pretty eclectic, but then my country is now very diverse and eclectic in it’s newfound culture, and it has been this way throughout the centuries of mankind living here.  So it makes sense to me that a modern pagan tradition in England would be a blend of different cultural and religious traditions.

What The Amish Can Teach Us

I think you can learn a lot from other religions, not just your own. Hinduism is quite an open religion, in the sense that they are open to learning new ideas and beliefs from other religions. They never condemn other religions and are happy to accept people of different faiths. I would like to think I am as open and accepting as this. I am also willing to learn about different beliefs and faiths, and be willing to add any aspects of their practice or beliefs into my own set of beliefs and practices. I see nothing wrong with this, and believe it is both helpful to me, and others.


I have recently been watching Living with the Amish on Channel 4, after watching the previous series of Amish: World's Squarest Teenagers, I have become fascinated with the Amish culture, what they believe and how they choose to live their life. I know they are Christian in their beliefs, but have chosen to try and get back to the oldest, most pure form of their religion. They live as people did hundreds of years ago. Unable to continue practising their religion in this way in Europe, they chose to emigrate to America, where they have been practising their religion in peace on their own land there ever since. Over the course of watching these two series, these are some of the things the Amish have taught me...

• Living close to nature is a way of living closer to God


• Freedom to express my religion is important to me


• Respect for one another is very important - never judge, condemn or get angry with other people


• Everyone has value, everyone should be respected


• We can choose to dress with modesty - there is no need for make-up or to follow fashion if we so choose - we are all equal.


• Following your own morals is important - Never give in to peer pressure, choose what is right for you


• Hard work is good for you


• Household chores can be enjoyed more if you do them with love - think of who you are doing this for (yourself or others)


• Think not what other people can do for you, but what you can do for other people.


• I can choose how much I want to let "The World" into and effect my life. I can choose to shut the media, news, violence and sex out of my life if I choose - simply by refusing to use certain technologies

I am not saying that this is the only way to live, or that it is the perfect way to live. Everyone must choose their own path. But I personally might like to read the Bible, to learn more what it teaches. As a moral tool, I think it has value. Whether it illustrates my religious beliefs, perhaps not. But I don't think it does any harm to understand another person's beliefs, and to show a little more compassion, understanding, and respect for other people's beliefs.

I know that I personally can all too easily make judgments and look down on other people. The Amish teach you to show respect and kindness for others. And it is from their Bible that they discover these teachings. I am enjoying looking at another way of life, and learning from it, so that maybe I can grow as a person, and develop my own moral system.


Paganism in general is about nature, honouring and respect for nature and/or the deities and spirits that represent them. In this, Amish and Pagans have something in common. The Amish believe Gods made all of nature, so it is sacred; and Pagans believe God (or gods) are nature, so again it is sacred.

The Channel 4 website states that "...the Amish families taking part in the series hope that it will reveal the advantages of a pure, uncluttered way of life." Perhaps we are all too easily distracted by our use of technology and media constantly in our face? I know my family gets distracted by politics, events happening in the news, music on the radio. I get distracted by emails, Facebook account updates, even adverts on my Hotmail web page when I'm wanting to check my emails. I am so used to living amidst technology, that I sometimes cannot see the wood for the trees. I miss what should be most important to me, my family and my faith. If we slow down and soak up the moment, perhaps try enjoying the simple things, we will no doubt enjoy life much more. Can you imagine spending a week without television, internet, radio, emails and phone? And maybe the only music or reading you could enjoy would be religious music (Christian or Pagan songs, depending on your faith), and the Bible / Pagan book. Life would seem very different, and I wonder if we would appreciate it more? I think it is the Jews who have a holy day each Sunday, I think they call it the Shabbat/Sabbat? They are not allowed to do any work on that day, or use any electrical devices, machines or equipment. All food must be cooked and prepared the day before, and no work at all. It sounds like a holiday. But it also sounds peaceful, and a magical way to spend the day.


There is definitely much other religions can teach us, and as we choose an eclectic path, we may pick and choose to add to our own personal blend of Paganism. For we are individuals, and so our faith and practice must be as individual as we are. Even the Amish have different orders and denominations for the different rules that they prefer.

Following your own path

I just read Sapphire's blog post at A Pagan Mother's Life blog, and tried to leave this comment in response, unfortunately the comment system wouldn't let me answer her, so I hope somehow she gets to see my response here...

Hi Sapphire, I myself am a solitary, and it's so strange because just last night I was reading a book telling me how to create my own solitary wiccan tradition! I would highly recommend his book: Living Wicca by Scott Cunningham. He tells you how to make sure it is a Wiccan tradition you are following, and how to sort out your own beliefs, your own concept of the God and Goddess, and what practices are right for you.

From my own experience, follow what is right for you. Research as much as you want, take what feels right for you, and give back what you no longer need with love and light. It will give you an incredible sense of freedom, and most importantly a stress free life!

Do not worry what other people say or think you should do, your pagan path is a personal one, what is right for you will not necessarily be right for someone else, and vice versa. Make sure you are happy and comfortable in the path you choose - and accept that this path can change as you learn more and grow through life. Most importantly, don't panic. Take your time and enjoy the journey of learning!

Best Of Luck,

SnowyGirl :)

Samhain - Life, Death, Rebirth

Samhain begins at sundown on 31st October, on All Hallows Eve (Halloween), and ends at sundown November 1st. Although back in Celtic times, the celebration spread over 3 nights of feasting. These feasts consisted of:

1. The End of the Harvest
2. Honouring the Animals
3. Honouring the Ancestors (Family Bloodline, those that have passed)

Although you don't have to follow these three feasts exactly, you can honour them in whichever order feels right for you, and celebrate what you want to celebrate and acknowledge. It could be one of the three nights you'd prefer to honour the Goddess and God, or maybe dedicate a night to Persephone and Hades and honour all those who have passed into the Underworld for their transformation before their rebirth.



Samhain is primarily about Life, Death and Rebirth. Symbolised by the apple, which goes through it's own cycle every year. The Apple grows fat and juicy, drops to the ground where it will die off and decay into the earth. Spending time in the earth through winter, it will transform and grow anew (from it's seed). In the Spring, it will shoot up anew as a seedling, and grow into a tree, which will later bear fruit - and we are back at the beginning of the cycle - the falling Apple.


Samhain is also the Celtic New Year, life from the past year has just died, now is a time of transformation in the dark, like a caterpillar in a chrysalis, life will be reborn anew in the Spring. Now is a good time to get rid of anything you no longer want in your life, and embrace any changes you want to make in your life. It's also a time to evolve and grow as a person, perhaps spend the winter months learning a new skill, crafting old things into new things, transforming things both within and without.


At this time of year, in many cultures, it is considered the time when the veil between this world and the spirit world is at it's thinnest. For Mexicans, it is a time for honouring the dead, as they celebrate "Dia de Los Muertos - The Day of the Dead". They make altars in the home, with skeletons or calaveras, foods and drinks as offerings to their deceased loved ones. They welcome their dead back home, to celebrate and party with them, so glad for them to be back with them. It is a time of happiness and joy. For them, death is nothing to be feared, but celebrated. The Mexican Day of the Dead takes place on November 1st, and usually goes on until at least the 2nd of November, so why not incorporate a little Day of the Dead theme celebrations on one of your feast nights?



Samhain should be celebrated and enjoyed It is a special and often the most favourite sabbat of the year. So however you choose to celebrate Samhain, enjoy this special time.

Mabon - The Autumn Equinox

For me, Mabon feels like it is more to do with celebrating Autumn, welcoming it's arrival. We are on the pivotal point when day and night are equal - there are equal amounts of light and darkness in our lives. This second harvest festival is closer to American Thanksgiving day, and seems to have the most in common with it. Although we can give thanks at Lughnasadh, the first harvest festival, we seem to be giving thanks mostly for the grain harvest, and some early berries. A big thank you for the good in our lives. At Mabon, I think we are being thankful for both the light and the darkness. For if we did not have the bad (dark) things in our lives, we would not truly appreciate the good (light) things in our lives. So we give thanks for the good, but also acknowledge the dark things in our lives that we would not usually want to acknowledge. Without the bad, we cannot truly appreciate the good. I found these words on About.com's Pagan Wiccan website, I find them inspiring, and they may be something you want to incorporate into your own celebrations or rituals:

Demeter, Inanna, Kali, Tiamet, Hecate, Nemesis, Morrighan.
Bringers of destruction and darkness,
I embrace you tonight.
Without rage, we cannot feel love,
Without pain, we cannot feel happiness,
Without the night, there is no day,
Without death, there is no life.
Great goddesses of the night, I thank you.

The Autumn Equinox is a time to think of the myth of Demeter and Persephone. Demeter loses her daughter, Persephone, who is kidnapped by Hades, the Lord of the Underworld. He keeps her down there for the next 6 months, while her mother Demeter is overcome with grief. She roams the earth, which now becomes cold and all life dies as the world feels her anguish. After 6 months, Hades eventually agrees to release Persephone. But only after he has tricked her into eating 6 Pomegranate seeds, one for each month of each year that she will have to stay in the Underworld. So each year afterwards, Persephone has to once again leave her mother and spend half the year in the Underworld with Hades, as Demeter once again mourns the loss of her daughter, and life on earth withers and dies, until Persephone's return next Spring. It is a beautiful story that explains the cold and the winter very well.


This story also reflects how we feel at this time of year. The dark months of the year are for inward reflection, rest, and renewal. It is a time of change, when we usually embark on a new phase in life, one which will change and transform us. This could come in the form of a course of study where we personally are learning something new, or it could be a change of job, as has happened to me in the past. Just like Persephone, we often feel restless before the Autumnal Equinox, there is that energy in the air, and we just can't settle, nor are we willing to remain the same. We want something new, something different. And just like Persephone, we can spend the winter months renewing ourselves and discovering new things, for her in a strange new world. We can return in the Spring with new skills and new knowledge, ready to shine in the new sun, renewed and very much alive. So consider doing something new to improve yourself and/or your knowledge.


Now is also the time of year to consider the dark goddesses, as well as to feel closer to the Moon Goddess. The Moon can be seen clearer and more often as the nights draw in. I feel a closer connection with the Moon in the darker months of the year, as she shines so brightly down at us. A great time of the year to learn more about her, spend time soaking up the Moon's rays, make Moon Water, or create a shrine / altar to honour and connect with her.


Mabon is traditionally a time of feasting, enjoying the new winter vegetables, and the fruits we are harvesting - now is the time of Bramble and Grapes, the fruits of the vine, for which we can honour the God of the forest (the Horned God), and thank the Goddess for the vegetables grown in the ground. Be thankful for this abundance of food that will keep us through the winter, but also be thankful for all the abundance in your life, your wealth, health, and your friends and family you can gather round you in this time of feasting and celebration.


Be sure to decorate your home and/or altar with autumn leaves, fruits and vegetables, scarecrows, toadstools (ornaments only I would hope!), and anything else that symbolises Autumn for you. Perhaps Autumn fairies, Autumn colours (red, yellow, orange and brown). A good source of Autumn decorations can also be found if you try looking for Autumn Wedding Decorations - there are a surprising number of beautiful decorations available. As this is the time of equal night and day, exactly 12 hours of each, you can decorate with symbols of balance, e.g. Yin Yang symbols, a black candle and a white candle, a Sun and a Moon, the Horned God and the Goddess, opposites of each other, in harmony and balance at this special time.


Favourite pastimes of the Autumn Equinox include storytelling around a camp fire (use a candle if necessary) - the spookier the better, holding a dinner feast inviting friends and family, saying thanks for what you are grateful for, or even just making a pretty Grateful List with pretty leaves and Autumn leaves making a decorative border. Another even simpler idea, is just to get out there and go for a walk, noticing the signs of Autumn. I love the leaves in the wind, the sound of rustling trees, the cool crisp air, ripening brambles on their branches, everything feels so alive. Right now I keep hearing about and seeing photos of squirrels - what better symbol of Autumn than squirrels? Especially red squirrels for their lovely Autumn colour. Whatever you do, enjoy your Autumn sabbat - it only comes once a year!

Finally Feeling Comfortable On My Path

I just realised something - for the first time on my pagan path, I finally feel comfortable knowing that I will never know everything there is to know about Paganism. It is not an easy path to undertake, it is not as simple as other religions where you have a main book or sacred text that everyone agrees holds the correct information. You ask five pagans a question, you get five different answers. And you have to figure out which answer is the correct one. The correct answer is the one that feels right for you, not for anyone else.

Today I realise that there will always be new things to learn about. I often have felt overwhelmed at all the things I do not know about my path and my beliefs. What happens when I die? Which deities should I study and get to know? How best should I celebrate a sabbat? And the amazing thing is, there are many different answers to each question. I just have to learn about them, and see which is right for me. Another amazing thing I've realised, is that these answers can change during the course of my life. What is right for me now, may not be right for me next month, next year, or in the next ten years of my life. My path will always be evolving. And that's ok!

Why shouldn't my beliefs change and adapt with me? Our personal views and opinions are formed by what we see and do, the experiences we have in life. As we go through life, we have new experiences, and as a result, we are bound to see things differently. We are an evolving species, we evolve as individuals too, in our appearance, intelligence, and beliefs too. One massive advantage to my pagan path evolving and changing through my life? I will never be bored. I will always have something new to discover. There will be new ways of doing things, I don't always have to do them the same way. I can celebrate a sabbat in one way this year, and try something new the next year. Depending on what is right for me at the time. There are many many deities to explore and learn about. There is so much to absorb and learn. Many different cultures have honoured many different deities and have many different cultural practices and beliefs. There are so many beautiful things to learn and try.

Now I know I no longer have to afraid of my lack of knowledge. There is no panic to learn everything at once, because I will always be learning. I can take my time, learn the things I am interested in, the things that inspire and move me. What is important to me now? And I can learn that. Right now I'm interested in learning about the Mabon / Autumn Equinox sabbat, the Green Man / Horned God deity, and the Earth Goddess / Moon Goddess. Is she the same person, two different people, or two aspects of the same Goddess? I have the time to learn and discover this for myself in my own time. My path is an inspirational one, it inspires me and makes me feel alive. What's not to love?

Right now, my words of inspiration are related to the Horned God...

"Live Wild and Free, enjoy every moment of being alive."

"And remember, all the strength you will ever need is already inside you."

The God and the Goddess are inside all of us, a part of the light and the dark, male and female, in all of us. I, as well as everyone else, have the divine spark and the inner strength within me, to take on anything I have to deal with in my life. I have the strength and energy of the Horned God within me, I can take on any battle I come across. I feel strong, and safe, for I will never be alone. Cernunnos, Herne, the Horned God, (whatever name you wish to use for him), is a Guardian and protector of all living animals, including us. We are his animals too. And I am grateful for that.

Have a Blessed and Magical Day!

What I Want To Learn

Today I have been clarifying what I want to learn. I feel drawn towards a Celtic path, and I am very interested in learning more about the Green Man, and how he is related to Pan, Cernunnos, Herne, pretty much I want to learn all about the Horned God. I have a pretty basic understanding of him at the moment, that he is lord and protector of the forests and all nature in it.

I also feel drawn to an Earth Goddess, namely Gaia. I imagine her with dark skin and green hair, coming from the dark earth itself with greenery growing from her. In my view, both the Horned God and the Earth Goddess compliment each other. I am also interested in the Moon Goddess, though find it hard to associate the Moon Goddess with the Earth Goddess, I believe they must be separate, as I believe the Moon Goddess is literally the light of the moon, and the Earth Goddess feels much darker and possibly to do with the Underworld, which I also have limited understanding of. I think both of these would be best studied in winter, when I notice the Moon more, and I have heard the Underworld is also more accessible in the winter than the summer. Perhaps it is a more appropriate time for it?

I am also studying the sabbats, or festivals, of the Wheel of the Year. So at the moment I am learning about Mabon, which is the Autumn Equinox, and falls on the 23rd September this year. So I guess I will be studying the Horned God and the Earth Goddess, along with learning about Mabon this month. Now I have a plan! Whatever you are doing, enjoy this time of year as I can now feel the chill of Autumn, the Fall will soon be here!